An Unofficial Barn Pet

I have what you might call an unofficial barn pet. Not a dog. Not another cat. A skunk.

He showed up one fall evening and, instead of acting like normal wildlife with a healthy fear of everything, he strolled into the barn like he had been invited. The barn cats, who normally lose their minds over a leaf blowing across the yard, just sat there watching him with deep suspicion.

The skunk ignored them completely and went straight to the feed area. Apparently, occasional cat food nuggets had been funding his nightly visits. He waddled around like a tiny striped inspector, sniffing everything, while the cats followed him in a cautious parade a few feet behind.

The strange part was how quickly everyone got used to this arrangement.

After a few days, the cats stopped following him and simply made room. He would come in, do his slow tour of the barn, snack a little, and leave. No drama. No spraying. Just business.

One night I walked in and found the skunk eating from the same bowl as one of the cats. The cats were eating along with the skunk.  I stood there trying to decide if I should intervene or just accept that the barn had its own wildlife policy now.

The skunk eventually got bold enough to wander around while I was in the barn. He’d look at me, I’d look at him, and we both seemed to agree that as long as nobody made any sudden moves, we could coexist.

The cats, however, treated him like a slightly embarrassing relative. They wouldn’t sit too close, but they also wouldn’t leave. If he wandered past, they would casually pretend they had something very important to lick on their paws.

He became such a regular visitor that I started checking for him before walking into the barn at night. Not out of fear, but out of courtesy. You don’t just barge in on a skunk who clearly thinks he lives there.

I had several barn cats and one striped honorary member of the crew. And somehow, the skunk was the calmest one of all.

A skunk sleeping in straw in a barn.

History of Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day feels like it was made for roses, chocolates, and love notes — but the history of Valentine’s Day goes back thousands of years, and it didn’t start out romantic at all.

The roots of the holiday trace back to ancient Rome and a mid-February festival called Lupercalia, a noisy celebration meant to welcome spring and encourage fertility. Part of the tradition even involved pairing men and women together by chance. Not exactly candlelight and poetry, but it did set the stage for a day connected to pairing people up.

As Christianity spread, the church replaced many pagan festivals with Christian observances. Around this time, we hear the story of Saint Valentine, a priest who secretly performed marriages after Emperor Claudius II banned them. Valentine was eventually imprisoned and executed. Legend says he signed a note from prison, “From your Valentine.”

The romantic connection didn’t really take hold until the Middle Ages, when poet Geoffrey Chaucer wrote that February 14 was the day birds chose their mates. From there, people began exchanging handwritten love notes called valentines.

By the 1800s, printed cards became popular, thanks in part to Esther Howland, known as the “Mother of the American Valentine.” The greeting card tradition took off, and soon flowers, chocolates, and romantic dinners became part of the celebration.

Today, Valentine’s Day is a blend of ancient tradition, legend, poetry, and modern romance. A holiday that has evolved from wild Roman festivals into a simple celebration of love in all its forms.

A vintage Victorian Valentine's Day card, likely from the late 19th or early 20th century, featuring intricate multi-layered paper lace with silver and white detailing. The center of the card has a heart-shaped cutout revealing a colorful bouquet of roses and other flowers. Below the bouquet is an embossed gold frame with the word "Devotion" embroidered or printed inside.

The Perfect Time to Tackle Projects

It’s actually the perfect time to tackle projects around the house that are easy to overlook during the busy months of the year. Late winter is that in-between season where you’re tired of being indoors, but it’s still too early to really get outside and garden.

This is a great time to do a deep clean in places you normally ignore. Think baseboards, light fixtures, vents, and the tops of cabinets. With the windows still closed and fewer distractions outside, it’s easier to focus on these small jobs that make the whole house feel fresher.

Late winter is also ideal for decluttering closets, drawers, and storage spaces. As you handle winter coats, boots, and gear every day, you quickly see what you actually use and what just takes up space. Clearing it out now makes the change to spring much easier.

It’s a smart time to check and replace furnace filters, clean vents, and make sure your heating system has been working efficiently through the coldest part of the year. You can also test smoke detectors and carbon monoxide alarms while you’re thinking about home maintenance.

Indoors, this is the season for small paint projects. Touch up scuffed walls, repaint a bathroom, or freshen up a room that’s been bothering you. Paint dries well in the dry winter air, and you’re inside anyway.

Late winter is also perfect for organizing paperwork, photos, and digital files. It’s not exciting, but it’s satisfying. Sorting through these things now clears mental and physical clutter before the busy outdoor season begins.

If you have tools, lawn equipment, or garden supplies stored away, bring them out and inspect them. Sharpen pruners, clean tools, and make a list of anything that needs replacing before spring rushes in.

Finally, use this quiet time to plan. Sketch out garden ideas, make a home improvement wish list, or decide what outdoor projects you want to tackle when the weather warms. Having a plan in place means you can hit the ground running when spring finally arrives.

Late winter may feel dull, but it’s actually one of the most productive times of the year for getting your home ready for everything that’s coming next.

A comic strip titled "Crabby Road" dated 12-11-11. The main character, Maxine, is seated in a green armchair, wearing a red hat, scarf, and sunglasses, next to a snowy window. She is holding a small red gift box. A second character in winter gear, holding a red and purple snowboard, stands next to her. A speech bubble from Maxine reads: "My windows have a really nice winter glaze. Wait, never mind... I think I just haven't cleaned them in a really long time."