History of Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day feels like it was made for roses, chocolates, and love notes — but the history of Valentine’s Day goes back thousands of years, and it didn’t start out romantic at all.

The roots of the holiday trace back to ancient Rome and a mid-February festival called Lupercalia, a noisy celebration meant to welcome spring and encourage fertility. Part of the tradition even involved pairing men and women together by chance. Not exactly candlelight and poetry, but it did set the stage for a day connected to pairing people up.

As Christianity spread, the church replaced many pagan festivals with Christian observances. Around this time, we hear the story of Saint Valentine, a priest who secretly performed marriages after Emperor Claudius II banned them. Valentine was eventually imprisoned and executed. Legend says he signed a note from prison, “From your Valentine.”

The romantic connection didn’t really take hold until the Middle Ages, when poet Geoffrey Chaucer wrote that February 14 was the day birds chose their mates. From there, people began exchanging handwritten love notes called valentines.

By the 1800s, printed cards became popular, thanks in part to Esther Howland, known as the “Mother of the American Valentine.” The greeting card tradition took off, and soon flowers, chocolates, and romantic dinners became part of the celebration.

Today, Valentine’s Day is a blend of ancient tradition, legend, poetry, and modern romance. A holiday that has evolved from wild Roman festivals into a simple celebration of love in all its forms.

A vintage Victorian Valentine's Day card, likely from the late 19th or early 20th century, featuring intricate multi-layered paper lace with silver and white detailing. The center of the card has a heart-shaped cutout revealing a colorful bouquet of roses and other flowers. Below the bouquet is an embossed gold frame with the word "Devotion" embroidered or printed inside.

The Perfect Time to Tackle Projects

It’s actually the perfect time to tackle projects around the house that are easy to overlook during the busy months of the year. Late winter is that in-between season where you’re tired of being indoors, but it’s still too early to really get outside and garden.

This is a great time to do a deep clean in places you normally ignore. Think baseboards, light fixtures, vents, and the tops of cabinets. With the windows still closed and fewer distractions outside, it’s easier to focus on these small jobs that make the whole house feel fresher.

Late winter is also ideal for decluttering closets, drawers, and storage spaces. As you handle winter coats, boots, and gear every day, you quickly see what you actually use and what just takes up space. Clearing it out now makes the change to spring much easier.

It’s a smart time to check and replace furnace filters, clean vents, and make sure your heating system has been working efficiently through the coldest part of the year. You can also test smoke detectors and carbon monoxide alarms while you’re thinking about home maintenance.

Indoors, this is the season for small paint projects. Touch up scuffed walls, repaint a bathroom, or freshen up a room that’s been bothering you. Paint dries well in the dry winter air, and you’re inside anyway.

Late winter is also perfect for organizing paperwork, photos, and digital files. It’s not exciting, but it’s satisfying. Sorting through these things now clears mental and physical clutter before the busy outdoor season begins.

If you have tools, lawn equipment, or garden supplies stored away, bring them out and inspect them. Sharpen pruners, clean tools, and make a list of anything that needs replacing before spring rushes in.

Finally, use this quiet time to plan. Sketch out garden ideas, make a home improvement wish list, or decide what outdoor projects you want to tackle when the weather warms. Having a plan in place means you can hit the ground running when spring finally arrives.

Late winter may feel dull, but it’s actually one of the most productive times of the year for getting your home ready for everything that’s coming next.

A comic strip titled "Crabby Road" dated 12-11-11. The main character, Maxine, is seated in a green armchair, wearing a red hat, scarf, and sunglasses, next to a snowy window. She is holding a small red gift box. A second character in winter gear, holding a red and purple snowboard, stands next to her. A speech bubble from Maxine reads: "My windows have a really nice winter glaze. Wait, never mind... I think I just haven't cleaned them in a really long time."

Pruning Older Shrubs

Pruning older shrubs isn’t really about making them look neat. It’s about helping them feel young and rejuvenated again. Over the years, shrubs get woody, crowded, and a little tired. They often grow thick on the outside while the inside becomes bare and lifeless. The good news is that most older shrubs respond really well when you prune them the right way.

Late winter or very early spring is usually the best time to do this while the shrub is still dormant. You can see the structure clearly, and once spring arrives, the plant quickly pushes out fresh growth. The exception is spring-blooming shrubs like lilac or forsythia. Those should be pruned right after they finish blooming, so you don’t accidentally remove this year’s flowers.

Start by crouching down and looking at the base of the shrub. You’ll usually see a mix of thick, old woody stems and some thinner, newer ones. The oldest stems are often dark, rough, and don’t leaf out very well anymore or maybe even dead. Those are the ones you want to focus on.

Instead of trimming the top like you would a hedge, reach inside the shrub and begin cutting the oldest stems all the way down to the ground. This is called renewal pruning. Removing about a third of those old stems each year opens up the center, lets light and air in, and encourages brand new shoots to grow from the base.

As you work, take out any stems that are dead, broken, rubbing against each other, or growing toward the center. This helps clean up the structure and prevents crowding.

If the shrub is very overgrown and out of control, you can use a more dramatic approach called rejuvenation pruning. In late winter, you cut the whole shrub back to about 6 to 12 inches from the ground. It looks drastic, but many shrubs bounce back with strong, healthy growth. This works well for shrubs like spirea, potentilla, dogwood, and lilac. It’s not a good idea for slow-growing shrubs or most evergreens.

After you’ve removed the old wood and problem stems, you can lightly shape what’s left. Try not to turn it into a tight ball. Shrubs should be a little wider at the bottom than at the top so sunlight can reach all parts of the plant.

One of the most common mistakes with older shrubs is trimming the outside. That creates a thick shell of growth and a dead interior. Pruning from the inside out keeps the shrub healthy and looking good for years.

With a little patience and some thoughtful cuts, an old, overgrown shrub can start looking lively and full again in just a couple of growing seasons.

A hand-drawn diagram illustrating five steps for pruning an older bush that is four or more years old.